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High Calibre Singles
A High-End Speed Dating Cocktail-Evening Experience,
by invitation only.
For Mature Singles (45+) living in an Estate.
Welcome
It is very difficult to find yourself back on the dating scene in your more mature years, disillusioned by how the online dating scene is just so foreign and inauthentic. We are not the same as the younger ‘online generation’.
We come from a time where personal interaction was the only way of meeting people and building relationships. From the days of traditional dating where you had to make a phone call to invite someone out on a date and actually invest time with them to discover the real person. From the days when attraction was based on a connection and not a photo and bio online. Manners, respect and chivalry still existed.
With your participation, we can recreate that Traditional Dating culture for ourselves.
We only cater for the more mature, high-end individuals
We understand the difficulties of dating. Especially for the well-established. Please read more about this and our reasons for doing things the way we do here. We restrict our events to those who reside in Estates. You are welcome to refer a friend living outside an estate if you are willing to vouch for their good standing.
Your choice of Age, Race, Distance & Orientation
We know you are looking for someone upmarket, financially stable and mature, like you. Perhaps you want to meet someone who doesn’t stay too far away from you. We pre-screen and verify all applicants before inviting them to an event, ensuring they match your selected criteria. You can read about this process here.
Meet at least 8 new guests in one evening
Our ‘Speed-Dating with a difference’ Cocktail Evening events are the perfect opportunity for you to meet numerous guests, one-on-one, and have enough time to see if you connect with them. Our cocktail evenings are also the perfect place to meet new friends in a relaxed social setting.
Upmarket and discreet,
we protect your privacy
If you don’t want to bump into your Ex as a guest, simply notify us in the application form and we’ll ensure you don’t attend the same event. Our events are held at upmarket establishments in a private setting.
Meeting in person before a date
makes all the difference
As a busy high-end individual you haven’t the time nor inclination to spend hours wading through ‘allsorts’ online. Neither do you want to meet with a person someone else decided is a match for you – only to discover they’re not.
Chat in a relaxed, no-pressure social environment
Our time managed approach prevents you from being monopolised by someone you are disinterested in, while still having enough time to build rapport and get a genuine feel for each guest in a relaxed social environment.
Why we don’t like online dating, match-making, or open age-based singles nights.
- Online Dating is saturated with gold-diggers, scammers, false photos and bios, and endless online games, seldom converting into anything real.
- Match-Making Services still leave you relying on photos and bios which does not convey your personality at all.
- Open, Age-Based Single’s Events are not discreet or exclusive. They often have ridiculously broad age ranges, don’t cater for your travel distance criteria, are held in public settings and attract the chancers. The imbalance in the ratio between men and woman at these events is off-putting for many.
Why our Events are better
- We only cater for individuals who are serious about wanting to connect.
- You spend a lovely, relaxed social evening at our Cocktail Event, having one-on-one face-to-face contact with all guests, without any pressure.
- You have enough time to establish a connection, be it romantic or a new friendship.
- You know that all guests are verified, match your basic criteria and the gender ratio is balanced.
- You get to use your own judgement on whether you are a good match.
- Introverts have an equal and fair opportunity to establish a connection and don’t get left out.
- You don’t run the risk of being openly rejected, or the awkwardness of rejecting someone else.
- We only invoice for events you wish to attend. No joining, monthly or hidden fees.
- We expect our guests to uphold the traditional values of respectful and dignified courting etiquette.
